Yes, if you're going to throw parts at the problem rather than diagnose it properly, you should at least start with the least expensive parts--like the spark plug.
Are you a mechanic? What does a code mean? Why do you wish to guess? You are describing a rather serious mechanical issue. Why asking about a spark plug?
get yourself a manual these codes are different on all makes of cars !
get ur mechanic to do it
Driving down the road and weird noise and lack of performance and once I stopped or slowed down there is so much vibration/shakes the car idk what it is I don't want to take it to a shop if it's just spark plug and I can do it myself....?